About

I’m a polyamorous middle aged woman with Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder who does Trap Neuter and Release for feral cats in our area and spends an inordinate amount of time gardening. I also worked for a dating site for over a year after being a member there for almost twenty. I wrote a memoir about my time on the site up until being hired. That site’s name? Adultfriendfinder.com. You can find that memoir here.

I’m Debbi

Welcome to Lady Cat Lady!
I’m a middle aged woman with Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder who used blogging, therapy, and gardening to help heal the wounds of my past. I just completed my first memoir.