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Continue reading →: Surviving
I feel as though many people in my life do not quite understand the amount of pressure I’ve been under for the last sixteen months. It’s as if because they don’t see the previous months of health issues and personal stress, it never happened. I remember, and I’m still in…
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Continue reading →: Buckle Up Buttercups(Wait, I’m a ’68 model with no seatbelts, so hold on to whatever you can…) This trip was an adventure, fully equipped with all the highs and lows you have all come to expect from me. It all started so wonderfully. I’ll spare you the minutiae, but my friend and…
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Continue reading →: Going in ReverseLet’s get right into it, shall we? For those I haven’t already told: I need a total reverse shoulder replacement. A few of you already know pieces of this, but I finally have enough information to give a proper update. Here’s what’s going on with my shoulder and what happens…
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Continue reading →: I’m a Mutant: Discovering Heterochromia in Our FamilyMy niece and I were chatting about me going to Arizona for Christmas when she said, “Can you take a picture of one of your eyes? I was trying to look at them in Michigan but I didn’t want to make it weird.” “You could have just asked. Do you…
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Continue reading →: Chaos DemonsThere I sat reading A Court of Thorns and Fury, from the book series ACOTAR. The first one, A Court of Thorns of Roses was a fun read. This one is a slog, I’m struggling to get through it. Don’t come at me for reading fantasy romance, my niece sent…
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Continue reading →: The Confidently Wrong ClubI love irony. And there is something perfect about someone confidently trying to insult your intelligence using a psychological term they don’t actually understand, thereby actively exhibiting it themselves. The Dunning-Kruger effect has become the internet’s latest, greatest insult for people trying to sound smart in comment sections. It’s the…
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Continue reading →: Have You Ever…Looked back on decisions you made and want to smack the crap out of yourself? I do, right now. My ego made me believe I could deal with it. Why did I think I was over it all? I didn’t intend to go back and stay, it was supposed to…
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Continue reading →: Bring Me My CrownThe kingdom of Catlandia has an announcement: (Edit: Queendom of Catlandia, as I was reminded in the comments.) From this day, henceforth, Debbi will be known as the Queen of Klutz. Hold your applause, please. She has been bestowed this honor due to her innate talent to injure herself throughout…
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Continue reading →: Surgery, a Reunion, and a Golden Cock Ring
Soooo, it’s been a while, how ya been? Me? Different It’s been about a year since I lost three people I love within three months of each other, two from suicide. I don’t know how one is expected to deal with that kind of tragedy, heal from the cacophony of…
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I’m a middle aged woman with Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder who used blogging, therapy, and gardening to help heal the wounds of my past. I just completed my first memoir.
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